GIRLS OF RIYADH is being referred to as "Saudi-style Sex and
the City" --- a secret look into the lives of professional women as
they search for love. But this love story is set in the
conservatively Islamic Riyadh as opposed to the melting pot of
Manhattan. Riyadh girls dance, eat McDonald's and shop, but only
with each other. Their link to the male world is through cell
phones and online chat rooms, and even then they are not allowed to
choose with whom they can spend the rest of their lives.

Rajaa Alsanea's book follows the storylines of four fictional
women, which is a style found in many contemporary novels: HOW THE
GARCIA GIRLS LOST THEIR ACCENTS, DIVINE SECRETS OF THE YA-YA
SISTERHOOD, THE SISTERHOOD OF THE TRAVELING PANTS, and, of course,
SEX AND THE CITY. In all of these books, four women's lives
interchange throughout the pages. Some are more conservative, some
are more liberal, some are bold, some are shy --- but all represent
different faculties of the feminine experience. When each set of
four is taken as a whole, the female reader is more apt to be able
to identify with at least one of the characters.

In this particular novel, Gamrah is the most conservative, Sadeem
is the hopeless romantic, Michelle brazenly questions her society's
restrictions, and Lamees is the one who succeeds in getting exactly
what she wants. At first it's hard to keep the characters, and
their various love interests, straight. But as time goes on and the
characteristics of the individual personalities are revealed, their
intertwining story becomes clear and fascinating.

What makes this so much different from the chick-lit that has come
before is the setting. Alsanea holds her own as a writer, but her
background is what sets her apart. As Americans we are generally
unfamiliar with the goings-on of the Saudi Arabian elite. Even some
of the elite themselves aren't very familiar with what goes on
behind closed doors, or at least they aren't open to talk about it
freely. Thus, while SEX AND THE CITY blazed a trail for American
women to be open about sex, GIRLS OF RIYADH blazed a trail for not
just openness about sex but about love, religion and the
limitations presented by family and society.

The only thing that feels disjointed about GIRLS OF RIYADH is the
unnamed narrator, who tells the story about her friends through
emails sent out to a listserv every Friday after prayers. The
narrator doesn't seem to serve much purpose, minus responding to
hate mail and praise that she receives after every post. It is as
if Alsanea wants to show how controversial her book is to someone
who might question that fact, but the story alone educates the
reader as to the sensitive nature of the subject matter. Instead,
the narrator's responses seem only to break the pattern of the
story itself and provide an unwanted interruption to its
flow.

Alsanea is not just a writer but a graduate student in dentistry,
juggling her love of literature with a respectable Saudi career.
First published in Lebanon, the novel was banned in Saudi Arabia
and circulated through black market copies. After four months she
got permission for it to be legally distributed there, and now the
rights have been sold to 12 countries. Alsanea's wisdom and insight
into the female experience seem surreal. She captures the core,
universal truths of the complications in finding and holding a life
partner. Her characters provide wisdom to each other that are
astounding in their accuracy, and Alsanea thus speaks for countless
women everywhere.

Even though this novel rallies against arranged marriages, GIRLS OF
RIYADH is not about abandoning one's heritage and culture. Instead,
it's about finding fulfillment within that culture. It's a critical
look at Riyadh society, but by women who wish that it and their
personal goals could coincide. It's also a look back in time for
Americans --- to a time when women lacked the freedom they have
now. However, throughout the pages we find that Riyadh and America
are not so different after all. The dress is different and the
customs are different, but the individuals under those robes and
adhering to those customs are just the same as we are.

The character with the most success, and who is the most similar to
Alsanea herself, is the one who is able to embrace both religion
and love, both education and relationship. Though Alsanea admits
that such success in Saudi is not generally as high as 1 in 4, it
gives hope and empowerment to those of us, in every country,
looking for love.