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The first two-thirds of Lorna Sage's tragicomic memoir seem oddly
dispassionate. A respected British academician, she relates events
and tells stories of her family without the pseudo-psychoanalysis
that so often accompanies works of creative nonfiction. She hardly
needs the analysis, since her story is chock full of odd characters
and unusual circumstances.

Sage spends her earliest years growing up with her grandparents in
north Wales, while her father is off fighting in the war. Her
grandfather, a vicar and probably the most unusual of the
characters, ministers to the community of Hamner. Not so fondly
known as "the old devil," he loves books, although he is taken to
blacking out the titles of his volumes in order to prevent
indiscriminate borrowing. He carries on numerous affairs with local
women, most infamously with the best friend of his then teenage
daughter.

Her grandmother, a strong character in her own right, carries her
resentment of her husband to the nth degree, refusing any part of
her role as wife. "Sex, genteel poverty, the responsibilities of
motherhood...were in her view stinking offenses, devilish male
plots to degrade her." She goes so far as to use her husband's
personal diary to blackmail him for a larger share of his
pay.

In starting the book, I assumed the war in question was World War
II, and it was. However, the setting and circumstances hearken back
to an earlier, grubbier time. Sage describes going to the local,
somewhat Dickensian school, the children "...all wearing damp,
knitted pixie hats and rubbing our chilblains while we waited to be
marched over to the parish hall for our regulation dinner of
whale-meat stew." And her grandmother is unable to find it in
herself to perform any housekeeping duties, so they live in near
total squalor, which symbolizes a larger sense of childishness
throughout the novel. "The family, though, is dangerously fissile,
falling apart, orphaned, since nobody wants to play the part of
parent."

After the war ends, Sage returns to life with both her parents and
finds her mother, like her grandmother, with an "acquired
ineptitude" when it came to adult responsibilities. "She had a kind
of genius for travesty when it came to domestic science." She
matter-of-factly chronicles her mother's food phobias in one of the
book's funniest sections. "All meat had to be made safe by boiling,
or by simmering it in a lake of spitting fat in the oven for hours,
and even then it was dangerously full of knots of choking gristle
and shards and spikes of bone which she'd warn us against with a
shudder."

The abrogation of parental responsibility becomes sharply clear as
Lorna enters adolescence. The work becomes quite a bit more
introspective as she describes her need to grow up quickly and her
need to commune with kindred spirits in an adult world. Sage
believes she inherited her grandfather's passions, which in her,
manifest themselves in bookish tendencies, although she notes, "I
had acquired from Grandpa vanity, ambition and discontent along
with literacy...my addiction to print was part of my general
delinquency." 

The "bad blood" of the title also comes into play as Sage seems to
have inherited her grandfather's amorous passions. Definitely boy
crazy and a little bit naïve, Lorna finds herself pregnant at
16. She marries the father and they keep the baby, surprising both
sets of parents and the horrible nurses at the maternity hospital.
The young couple is determined to continue their education at
Durham University where they both study literature. The book ends
with the couple's graduation from university, although Sage does
provide enough information in an Afterword to satisfy reader's
curiosity. Her experiences show her as a symbol for a post war
woman.

Sage is partly rooted in an earlier time with her young family
while, at the same time, she pursues a career that would be
considered unusual for a woman in the early 1960s. As she says,
"...we broke the rules and got away with it, for better and for
worse, we're part of the shape of things to come."