In 1991, with BACKLASH, Susan Faludi wrote a book that was nothing
less than a landmark, exploring the sociopolitical and economic
ravages against women in American society. Now, in STIFFED, she
turns a bright and respectful eye to the crisis of men at the beginning
of the new millennium. STIFFED is a remarkable achievement and an
eye-opening revelation for fans of Faludi's important feminist work.
I have to admit that I approached the book with low expectations
--- after all, as a feminist, I am committed to the rights of women
in a world where men still run most of this nation's conglomerate
companies and dominate all of the state and federal legislatures.
Men still earn more than women; but Faludi looks at the majority
of men who have little economic power, little or no public influence,
and nothing but falsely constructed images of the successful American
man of the past to try to live up to. These fault lines are ripping
apart the seams of the American myth, and Faludi spares no details
in looking at how destructive they are.
At the "bitter heart" of this crisis, she finds an overwhelming
sense of paternal abandonment. Her conclusion that men and women
have an opportunity to move beyond an adversarial relationship to
create change together is almost an obvious one --- but a truly
important one, nonetheless. From football to the corporate boardroom,
she takes down the reigning mythologies of our vast social landscape
and turns over the earth to find black loam that can, hopefully,
be planted to grow a new era of understanding for all people.
--- Reviewed by Jana Siciliano