When people who aren't writers write about having cancer, I find their
stories compelling and heartbreaking --- after all, these are just plain
folks who don't usually have the arsenal and experience of a lifetime of
creative wordsmithery behind them to utilize in explaining for us a horrific
and deadly time in their life. When writers get cancer, they get cute and
funny and self-deprecating to the point that you start to lose the sense of
immediate fear and danger in which these people have found themselves. And,
like with a thriller starring a very big Hollywood star, you know that in the
end the star will not be killed off, because no one kills off Mel Gibson or
Harrison Ford --- they are built to last. Thus, in BALD IN THE LAND OF BIG
HAIR, Joni Rodgers, by virtue of the fact that she is writing this book, lets
us know that a) writers make cancer funny and b) writers who write books
about cancer don't die --- they happily slip into remission.
It's not that I want to downplay the nightmare it must be to have cancer at
all. Certainly, Rodgers, a writer/actress and mother of two, has many things
she does not wish to lose in her life, particularly her ability to live that
life. A free spirit who worked as a radio disc jockey for years as well as a
trained thespian and all-around creative nymph, Rodgers engages us in her
story but ultimately the story is about someone who is going through the
painful steps of grabbing back her life from the angry clutches of cancer. It
is not funny, really. It is sad and scary, and I can't help wondering how I
would react to the book if I (knock on wood) got sick like that. I would
assume that people who actually have cancer might find comfort in Rodgers's
tale --- I just find the fear that, of all the things I worry about on a
regular basis, I should add 'possible cancer' to my list because it seems to
hit so many people who have no family history of it whatsoever.
The title tips you off to Rodgers's rather flamboyant personality and thus
will give you a heads-up on her writing style as well: part sitcom-writer
with the easy joke, part Borscht Belt comic with an old one for the aging
crowd, part fearful human, part brave and courageous mom who wants to see her
kids grow up. BALD IN THE LAND OF BIG HAIR has a resounding bravado that
makes the story easier to digest, even among all the references Rodgers makes
to what a crazy, kooky gal she has always been (which sometimes become too
dazzling and show-stoppping for the story she is telling). Joni Rodgers is,
above all else, a survivor and she lets you know it.
--- Reviewed by Jana Siciliano